Here we go again. Delta Air Lines blames a paperwork mix-up for sending two children traveling as unaccompanied minors to wrong destinations, AP reported this past week.


The kids were both connecting through Minneapolis but somehow the boy ended up in Cleveland instead of Boston while the girl went to Boston instead of Cleveland. The children were under airline supervision—a service the parents paid for.


This at the time of year families are packing kids off to camp and to visit divorced parents, grandparents and old friends . It’s no big deal for kids to fly solo across the country or even the ocean these days. According to one report from the  Travel Industry Association, sixteen percent of U.S. adult travelers with children,–14.3 million parents– sent their child (or children) under 18 alone on an airplane trip in the past three years.  Southwest Airlines alone carries 300,000 unaccompanied minors a year, many in summer, some more than once a month.


Before you put your child or teen on an airplane along, here’s what you need to know:

–If possible, avoid sending your child solo on their first flight.


–Carefully check the website of  your airline for the rules and fees for unaccompanied minors because they vary greatly.


–Arrive at the airport early because you will be required to fill out the necessary forms.. Make sure you have the names, phone numbers and addresses for those picking up your child at the other end. Give your child a card with that information as well. Make sure they know where to reach you as well.


–Make sure they know where they are going and instruct them to speak up if the pilot says they are going to Boston and they know they are supposed to be going to Cleveland, they need to speak up—immediately!  


–Some airlines permit young teens as young as 12 to fly without supervision. You can ask and pay for the service for them if you prefer they aren’t on their own.  You can also ask for a gate pass to accompany your teen through security, though he no longer is an unaccompanied minor.


–If your teen is old enough to fly without supervision but looks young, bring along  a copy of her birth certificate or passport.  Otherwise, children under 18 are not required to show photo ID.


–Play the “what if” game with the kids . What if their flight is diverted ( airline personnel will take care of them) what if grandpa is late picking them up (airline personnel will stay with them until grandpa arrives)  what if they feel sick on board (tell the flight attendant)


–Make sure teens who are flying as adults know they must speak up if their flight is delayed or a connecting flight cancelled so that airline personnel can make sure they’re not stranded on their own. Make sure they have some money and a cell phone.


–Don’t rely on the airline to entertain or feed the kids. Make sure to pack a sandwich,  empty water bottle they can fill once through security, snacks and plenty to entertain your child. Explain to the younger kids that they’ll have to entertain themselves, that the flight attendants are too busy to play with them.  Stash a new toy, movie, or book in their backpack along with a favorite treat.


–Instruct those picking up the children to arrive early and to bring photo id. The airline won’t release your children without it.


–Stay at the airport until your child’s flight is airborne– In the event of a mechanical problem that brings the plane back.


–Act confident! If your children sense that you’re nervous about putting them on the plane, they’ll be nervous too.